Sakon Nakhon nightlife exists, but you have to do some looking around. Nearly all the massage places will offer a happy ending and there are a couple that will provide full service. But you have to try them out individually. They will close and reopen at a different location. If you have a room alone, and you ask for an oil massage, and you take off all your clothes and only have towel wrapped around you, the girls will want to make some extra money and will ask if you want more than a massage. Most can’t speak English, but they will touch your genital area and ask.
There are not any soapy massage places, but if you try out a few massage places, you will find a good experience. There was a place where the room was very small with only a pad on the floor, but the girl showered with the customer, took him to the room, massaged and did anything else he wanted, then would escort him back to the shower to clean up.
The Sakon Nakhon nightlife clubs are geared towards the Thai people. If you want to venture into one, be sure you have at least one wing-man to tag along. The Golden Pond Coyote club seems to be the most friendly toward foreigners and the girls there are OK and also friendly. There is a good chance you’ll find a girl for the night. There used to be another good location at The Loft Living Bar, but it has closed permanently.